This is sooooo me and my bf, omfg 😭
Three times a day, every single day, I ask him this question. And he always replies in the same manner. I wuv him 🩷

  • unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de
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    Omfg i would go insane if my SO would keep asking me that question. Like girl, if i stopped loving you you would know, believe me.

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            I’m 7 years into a relationship like this. I love her, but it’s breaking us apart. If you love your SO, please don’t neglect your mental health. What is reassuring and cute to you can become a taxing chore with time until one person is more like a caretaker than a lover.

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              New question: “would you love me even if I kept asking if you love me to point that you become more like a caretaker than a lover?”

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              I know he’s acting like a caretaker for me. I know I’m just being a burden to him. I’m just pulling him down with me…
              Don’t worry. I’m aware how pathetic I am. I really am…but I don’t think I’ll get much better. It’s my fault that I started this relationship, I’m only hurting him and making more work for him in the end 🥲

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                I recognize everything you say and the tone of it, and I’m just immune to that angle. If you take a step back and look at it, it’s an appeal for more reassurance. I’m just saying that for your partners sake, and if you actually want the relationship to work, the best thing you can do is working on your confidence. If you don’t, every “But baby I do love you let me show you” will gradually become hollow words, and eventually filled with resentment. That’s not what you actually want, right?

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                Well it sounds like your partner is telling you he loves you even if things stay the way they are and that should make the two of you very happy. It sounds like you are doing this, but just remember it is always worth trying to improve your own mental health situation even when things feel hopeless. It’s not selfish to need help and support as long as you and your partner have healthy boundaries and can communicate openly and honestly.

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        Yup.

        Different things in different relationships works for different people . To each their own basically 🫂🤷🏿‍♂️

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    People say this, but I never see anyone out there loving worms just in case it’s their soulmate.

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      My wife asked me if I would still love her if she was a worm.

      Me: “What does it mean for you to be a worm? Like, you were never born and instead your consciousness went into a worm somewhere? Or you’re the person you are right now but then you decided to switch to a worm body? Or a witch cursed you and turned you into a worm against your will?”

      Her: “I dunno, you just come home and I’m a worm.”

      Me: “So I wasn’t there to witness the transformation? I’d probably put the worm outside and try to find you.”

      Her: “And when you don’t find me, what do you do with the worm?”

      Me: “Nothing? I don’t know it’s you.”

      Her: “Really? You won’t take care of me?”

      Me: “I don’t think I would even think about the worm in the first place. If anything, I’d maybe squish the worm.”

      Her: “You WHAT?!??”

      Me: “I mean… uhh…”

      Her: “We’re fighting.”

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    Her: Would you love me if I was a worm?

    Me, who has recently read Dune: THE SPICE MUST FLOW