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Cake day: March 28th, 2024

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  • YES. I’m piggy backing on your post to drive home why you keep your receipts.

    I was fired for performance issues after a little over a year of employment. They claimed I was working at a level lower than an entry level new hire. This was a big surprise to me as my most recent review was glowing, my expertise was carrying the department, and no one ever mentioned any concerns. The company was having issues, though, and I was the highest paid person in my department.

    Unbeknownst to them, I keep a work journal. I spend five minutes at the beginning of each day reviewing what I did the day prior and what needs to be done that day, then recording it all in a little notebook made exactly for the purpose (I can link anyone if they’re interested). So I spent about 20-25 hours over my time there doing this and had meticulous records of the entire time.

    What’s fun about my termination is I was out for 2 months recovering for surgery from a work injury. They fired me the day I returned for unsubstantiated performance issues that I can refute by the day.

    Guess who is getting a $150k settlement.

    That little notebook, on top of keeping me on track and making work easier, earned me about $6000/hour.








  • SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonewound care rule
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    It’s less about no microbes than starting with a reasonable amount. As long as the wound is cleaned of debris and large amounts of dead tissue, one’s immune system will typically be able to prevent bacterial overgrowth or handle a small amount of pathogenic bacteria. I make the distinction in the hope that people don’t go overboard with disinfection. You just need good enough.

    I had a sizable wound treated with a hydrocolloid bandage. They’re sealed to form a moist environment by retaining exudate and are changed every 5-7 days. No antibiotics are used. It should have been a festering mess according to previous wisdom, but it was fine the entire time.




  • DIY concrete is fucking brutal work, though, even with a mixer, unless you’re pretty strong or have strong friends, and you have to do it in one go if structural strength is a concern. I love the savings and personal satisfaction of DIY, but I started eating the cost of getting concrete poured professionally somewhere in my early thirties.



  • Internal Family Systems teaches that we have multiple internal personas that have different roles in protecting the true self at the center. It has been useful for self discovery, though I don’t know if I believe it’s completely correct

    I did learn that I have multiple sets of behaviors that l adopt based on need. It’s like code switching, except it changes everything - speech cadence, word choice, body language, thought patterns, you name it. It’s not multiple personalities or anything, just changing relative proportions of various traits for a given situation, like job switching in an RPG. It was initially really jarring for my partner. They are one of the few people I’m genuinely myself around, but if I’m in a very stressful situation or interacting with co-workers about work, they see me acting very differently. It’s disconcerting but it makes me more flexible in social situations.

    Edit: I also recently learned I’m what is known amongst the commoners as “autistic as fuck”, so that may be a factor. Still learning!





  • Yeah, alum, usually potassium alum, is just a solid block of one of the ingredients used in antiperspirants to plugs up sweat glands to keep you from sweating as much. That’s partially how it works as a styptic - it’s irritating, so blood vessels will contract, but it also just plugs up some of the smallest vessels. Its use was much more common before the widespread adoption of electric razors, even if just as a little styptic pencil.

    Yes, I’m one of those hobby shaving people.



  • Fuck yeah, rock it. I am a naturally very manly smelling person, sometimes to my dismay, so I always stayed with scents that “matched”: cedar, sandalwood, rosemary, juniper, bergamot, and the like. I often smelled like a lumber mill or a very conversational pot roast.

    I got a scent sampler pack from Boy Smells a bit ago and I get so many compliments from others when I wear them.