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HELLO NOT LURKING WE JUST HAVE NOTHING USEFUL TO CONTRIBUTE THANKS
HI INFORMATIVE AND INSIGHTFUL RESPONSE
I DON’T LIKE POSTING MUCH BECAUSE I AM TRASH
You both should come join us in shitposting. One of us!
But I like being a lurker 😟
Too late, lurkers don’t comment!
You can’t tell me what to do!
I’m descriptive, not prescriptive!
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuu!
I still remember this epic comment from @cm0002@lemmy.world. It’s funny because cm0002 is like one of the most active posters I see around.
Why do I too remember that post and the comment, huh, I might be spending a lot of time here
I don’t think making feud posts is contributing.
They really upped their game!
It’s ok to be a lurker. Lurkers, I’m happy you’re here with us.
And we’re here for you.
Hey this user isn’t a lurker!! They’re a big fat phony!!!
Talking to people is scary. :(
- Presses reply
- Types an insightful comment
- Looks at it. There’s something wrong with it. He just doesn’t know what.
- Erases it. Starts over.
- *Still doesn’t feel right *
- Hits cancel, discards the comment, and goes back to doom scrolling.
How often did you contemplate posting this comment?
A couple times haha
I can tell with the editing lol
I worry the same way, but mostly just when I’m commenting on something hurtful. Like if a commenter is being agonizingly wrong about something really important, spreading lies, you know the kind. I’ll get worked up and start writing a comment, but realize that any point I make can be nitpicked and invalidated even if it’s broadly correct. So I don’t post those comments.
But when it’s not in response to someone being inflammatory, I feel better about just doing my best with what I write. If someone has a correction, well that’s a good thing! I’ll acknowledge it and edit my comment to include the better info I’m given. I can hope that the people reading it don’t see that I was wrong on one point and decide I’m completely wrong because I try to interact respectfully.
>writes three paragraph comment
>edits comment for 10 minutes to make it as succinct as possible
>realizes it has nothing to do with parent comment
>deletes comment
Back on reddit, a good half of the comments I would have left got deleted as soon as I posted them. Lemmy has forced me to make sure I’ve said something relevant, because if I leave a comment and then delete it, everyone gets to know that I did that, and that makes me feel even worse than saying something slightly off topic
I mean, if it is not related to a specific “parent comment”, you could simply post it as a 1st rank comment to the post instead?
I felt this in my bones.
Same, but I cannot even get to the reply phase. Also I am bad at commenting/posting anything good.
I figure that there are plenty of other people that can tell me what’s wrong with my comment, so just post it and let others work for you for free.
How do people think of stuff to post?
You do a ritual to appease the Blood Gods, and beg to gain a fraction of their creativity for a moment in time.
Or you post about beans and potash.
Frequent lurker here, I just have such a hard time getting my thoughts out into words that’s relevant to a conversation. Add in an irrational amount of aversion to negative feedback (real or perceived) and it just feels better to just keep scrolling.
One day I’ll get better at this, it’s not easy when my socializing experience has been dominated with negativity both online and offline.
The thing is, I feel like many people just add whatever they think and want to say to a conversation no matter how relevant or irrelevant it is to the current situation. In the end, I feel like most people on here are civil enough to not be mean-spirited towards one another unless they’re talking to bigots and stuff.
I struggle with this quite often too - especially when it comes to topics that can be quite divide and polarising - but I always feel good once I do step out of my comfort zone and post away. There’s usually bound to be at least a couple people with whom your comment resonates with. Give it a try maybe - you’d be surprised how well it can go :)
I feel you. I delete like half the comments I post and want to delete another half of what’s left before I do, for the same sounding reasons.
I don’t think people will be a dick to you on here, and if they are it won’t be well received by anyone else.
If it helps, people seem to be a lot more open to questions and discussion here than on sites like reddit. Its pretty refreshing.
lurks lurkishly
lurking intensifies
Walking lurkishly down the stairs
How decedent
It’s hard to engage with other posts when most of them are about Linux or American politics. Two things I don’t really want to spent a lot of time engaging with.
Besides that it’s mostly old memes which isn’t worth commenting on.
Other niche communities I’m interested in are not that active. Even though I’ve posted in them Tue lack of engagement isn’t a motivator.
good morning, people
Making assumptions there, bud.
Locks eyes irritability
Now this, I like
Bla bla bla Linux bla bla bla
Bla bla Arch bla the way, bla bla bla… Bla bla bla bla!
Don’t forget the new socks that apparently come with it
Bla bla bla Hyprland is a dyanamic tiling window manager that doesn’t sacrifice on the looks blah blah.
No
Spoiler
Commenting counts?
