So by the logic of “beauty standards”…I should starve myself, curl my hair, get a tan, cut off both my feet to lose height and then remove all of my ribs to get an hourglass figure? You know…can’t argue with that 🙃
Gladly…would
(except maybe the tan part, I really like being pale 😭)
Anything to sell more products. Diets, lotions, makeup, new clothes to fit your body shape, plastic surgery, botox, etc.
The capitalist machine grinds you down evermore.
Beauty has always been about rarity, status and wealth.
White cis hetero beauty standards enforce capitalist and bigoted ideals to keep minorities and poor whites down.
by the logic of
I don’t mean to dismiss or deny that there is a lot of pressure on women to look certain ways, but I just can’t let bad logic slide.
A beauty product that doesn’t change your appearance in some way is of no value. Only a few very talented charlatans get away with selling $50 bottles of does nothing. By definition all beauty products make you “anything but who you are”.
The fact that there is no one unified beauty standard that everyone should try to copy, and that people can choose to look however they want, is to be celebrated, but OOP frames it as some sort of hypocrisy. It’s not clear what outcome OOP would prefer - presumably they want it mandated for everyone to stick with whatever they look like first thing out of bed, whether they like it or not? Or do they just not like the variety, and would like the rule to be that everyone should look like Kate Moss?
I realised this when I started secondary school, started seeing girls in my glass dyeing and straightening and curling and all that waste of time and money. Decided to not partake, no regrets so far after +10 years. No one is forcing, you can think for yourself.
You can’t please everyone
Makes me sad what society does to women. My little sister looks like a 40s Hollywood star or something. Totally beautiful person. She thinks she looks like Shrek.
Close, but its actually “whatever sells you a solution”.
It’s about making women have low self esteem and always willing to change ourselves to meet expectations. It makes it easier to get us to submit in other ways.
Can’t sell you products if you’re happy with yourself
While also selling solutions to “problems.” Meta platforms in particular have set up their advertising algorithms to know when women are feeling bad about themselves based on their posts, to sell cosmetics
Yeah. I honestly hate it more and more each day :/
That is exactly what ‘beauty standards’ are. Unobtainable. How otherwise could they constantly sell you stuff to ‘improve’ your look? Fashion, beauty, fitness, wellness sales are 100% dependent on you being convinced to hate yourself enough to buy, buy, buy.
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It’s a selection bias. The only unsolicited comments about your body are from mean people.
I was thinking more like confirmation bias. There is no such thing as the one single beauty standard, people just remember the stuff that made them feel insecure.
Being comfortable with one’s self is attractive
Thank you. As a plus-sized girl, this is something that I really needed to see tonight. I’ve been feeling very ugly & disgusting because of my weight.
As someone who is married to a plus-size lady, I can assure you that anyone judging you for that is not worth the time of day. Be comfortable with who you are, if you want to change yourself in any way then do it because you want to, not because of irrelevant dillweeds.
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Being plus-sized is not a flaw and I hate how badly society treats plus-sized people. That’s disgusting, the shame and fatphobia society directs against plus-sized people…it’s really extreme.
You’re neither ugly nor disgusting. I see you and appreciate you. I hope you are well 🩷
Thank you. <3
I feel a lot better when I am able to go to the gym regularly, but I haven’t been able to go in months because I just can’t afford it since I’m try to go back to school (college) and books are hella expensive.
Some of us vastly prefer plus sized girls.
Can confirm ⬆️ Even more people prefer people that are comfortable with who they are, irrelevant of size ✌️
I’m also on team plus.
My wife of twelve years was (still is) a person of size. Ten stars: Would marry again.
I feel like that’s some serious question?
It is like that coz some wants profits.
It is not enough to sell beauty products, as once achieved, income could drop - You need to pursuit another beauty. And poof, we have a fashion.
Nah, it was still not enough, so, they started to make You feel ugly, so spend more. Follow all these photoshopped ai enhanced pictures from ads everywhere, unreachable standard. Spend.
Fuck it, ignore standard, go get beauty in self from self (whatever that mean, rarely someone can judge self as “good enough” or “damn pretty enough”).
Creating demand is a centerpiece of a Western world since about Edward Bernays.
