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  • TheRealKuni@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneBased 🫡
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    4 months ago

    That’s silly, imagining that people exist on a spectrum. Don’t you know everything in life is black and white, either or, binary?

    The Kinsey scale only contains 0 and 6 for a reason. If there were any numbers between 0 and 6, people might think the world was complex and nuanced or something.



  • TheRealKuni@lemmy.worldtoMemes@sopuli.xyzThat's me
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    4 months ago

    Let me be a chainmail scrubber evangelist. These things are fantastic, like steel wool that doesn’t fall apart. Safe for most things (though I wouldn’t use it on non-stick cause you’ll ruin the teflon). Easy as hell to wash, cause it’s stainless steel.
















  • TheRealKuni@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneRule
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    4 months ago

    Exactly: Things got worse slowly, then quickly. Why can’t they get better that way too?

    They do.

    Look at the rise of gay rights. It happened very slowly, then suddenly. Now most Republicans accept gay people’s existence.

    The thing is, there’s never not something to progress on. We can always improve society. And the people trying to hold that back will always fight back. So it sometimes feels like we don’t make progress.

    But we absolutely make progress. It isn’t always smooth, it isn’t always consistent, but lots of hard data shows human existence getting better. Millions fewer children died in 2024 than in 1984. A smaller percentage of humans starved to death. A smaller percentage of humans died of treatable diseases.

    Don’t let despair take you. Keep fighting, and society marches on.


  • My grade school bully is serving life in prison for attempted double homicide. IIRC he’s also a sex offender.

    Obviously the decisions he made as an adult are his responsibility, but honestly I feel bad for him. He didn’t have much of a chance. His home life was terrible, and he took it out on those around him. He had no positive role models in his daily life besides those at his school, who were always punishing him because he couldn’t conform to a world utterly foreign to his own where people weren’t constantly shitty to one another, and the school didn’t have any better idea how to handle him. The kid had no support. His father was in and out of jail/prison, his mother was overwhelmed. He fell through the cracks.

    It’s no surprise he turned out a piece of shit.

    That doesn’t excuse his actions. Plenty of people come from difficult origins and are good people leading decent lives.

    But I do pity him.