Few do, and def not to the extent you worry. This is because you are a trans girl who ties up the validity of her gender to not being “horny like a dude.” You get serious imposter syndrome from thinking sexual thoughts about women, which believe it or not, is quite common for transfems. To alleviate your dysphoria, you repress the desires you see as masculine.
Honestly, this is all so goofy, because sexual activities and thoughts are perfectly fine and good for folks of all genders to engage in. Your own sexuality is nothing unnatural, evil, or inherently masculine. You’re just a useless lesbian like so many of us here :3
I think the only time it becomes invalid is when you start doing things to someone without consent. But if you’re just looking respectfully and thinking thoughts, that’s so fine. Flirting as well is more than reasonable, complimenting someone, offering your phone number (never ask for theirs, offering yours lets them choose later). Just don’t touch people! ✌️
straight men nevr think “i dun wan be evil” ?
Few do, and def not to the extent you worry. This is because you are a trans girl who ties up the validity of her gender to not being “horny like a dude.” You get serious imposter syndrome from thinking sexual thoughts about women, which believe it or not, is quite common for transfems. To alleviate your dysphoria, you repress the desires you see as masculine.
Honestly, this is all so goofy, because sexual activities and thoughts are perfectly fine and good for folks of all genders to engage in. Your own sexuality is nothing unnatural, evil, or inherently masculine. You’re just a useless lesbian like so many of us here :3
I think the only time it becomes invalid is when you start doing things to someone without consent. But if you’re just looking respectfully and thinking thoughts, that’s so fine. Flirting as well is more than reasonable, complimenting someone, offering your phone number (never ask for theirs, offering yours lets them choose later). Just don’t touch people! ✌️