transcription: of course i have a praise kink i was ignored as a child

  • erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPM
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    2 days ago

    i have a major praise kink, but an inability to ask for anything and a predisposition to take care of people so normally i end up the one praising.

    • Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      That’s not the worst scenario, provided that your partner is the same way. One of the best habits I’ve picked up from work is “behavior-specific praising.” So here we go:

      I love how you do your best to take care of others! The way you shower compliments onto people is really sweet, and I bet it makes your partner(s) feel amazing. It sounds like you’ve formed a positive habit that brings more joy into the world, and that is a beautiful thing. Keep it up! 🌸

    • maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 days ago

      oooooh i see,… yessssyesyesyes i totally understans that… askin for things is hard…,.,… especially when it comes to adult things (i feel)…,… mhm mhm - ,… jus umm…hmmm… iguess now i gotta look up what a praise kink actually looks like - (i can… imagine but mayb my imagination is wrong!!)