What do you mean? My partner and I use the same Immich server, but I don’t see her photos unless they are explicitly shared.

You make a new account.

Yes, I established that was an exaggeration for effect. 👍

I switched to DDG recently for the first time ever, so I was effectively a new onboard for them. AI was in fact not opt-in, and I had to turn all of it off.

What did you mean by this?

That I love my partner very much.

And yet you decided to continue this thread by saying that you weren’t exaggerating.

In fact, I never said that.

Of course the %age I used was an exaggeration. Sorry, was this conversation being driven by the assumption that it wasn’t? I exaggerated to make my point.

I think you drastically underestimate how much I love my partner.

I wouldn’t say it’s an anxiety, I’d say it’s a cost-benefit analysis I’ve done and decided that having cell service to catch a potential emergency call is more important to me than that one extra level of privacy like OP. Hell, I don’t want to miss a call even if it isn’t an emergency. I love my partner and want to talk to them any chance I can get; if they’re calling I want to answer.

I would not be comfortable not having mobile signal. Public WiFi is not going to cut it. Even a 0.00001% chance that I’d miss an important call from my partner is no bueno for me.

I’m not an expert, take this with a very big grain of salt.

But I think what you want here is for your home server tailscale to act as an exit node for your remote connection.

This will mean that your phone for example will route traffic through your home server, using its AdGuard DNS.

You can even set it up to conditionally use it as an exit mode, iirc.

It is the article, to be fair.

They aren’t mutually exclusive.

Great visual and anecdotally I wholly agree.

That’s a strange choice.

Because Obama got a Nobel peace prize, Trump is obsessed with getting one himself. That’s why.

He actually picked up the medal like that, however the face and hair are edited.

Yes that’s part of a boycott. Their ratings are absolutely important to them.

Awesome work!

So, I think you’re bang on here. The exports reveal that the info is included like so:

item1.X-ABDATE:20160302
item1.X-ABLabel:Death

My cursory searching tells me that this isn’t outside of the CardDAV/vCard spec per se, but that the X- signifies “extension”, aka basically, info that is being included but may only be read by apps that specifically know to look for it.

Now I need to decide if I’d rather have them show up as death anniversaries on my android calendar but not show up at all on my desktop clients, or redo those dates to be maybe a note or something though then they won’t sync to a calendar, or remove it entirely from the contact and instead just have it as an event on my calendar that repeats. Hmm…

Thanks for the idea though, it got me to look at the file itself which was very helpful!