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Cake day: June 7th, 2023

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  • One thing I had to learn was that if I asked someone out and they said no or didn’t reciprocate wasn’t a loss or rejection.

    Not only that, but you dodged a bullet. I thank women when they respectfully reject me. It’s awesome.

    Also, think about all the times you were turned down. Does any of that matter now?? Nope. No one involved cares at all if they even remember. I think something that might help with this is for OP to place themselves in a position where they reject others. They could experience the other side and see that it’s not a bad thing. It’s just that they think it’s not for them and nothing else. And even in the rare chance that the rejection is seen as something else by the rejecting person, then even better because that’s not just dodging a bullet but dodging an artillery shell.


  • Maybe it’s not that you can’t be what someone else wants, but that you aren’t finding or building relationships with the people that would want you. There are so many people with such vasts tastes, that there is someone for everyone, even serial killers or 40 year olds that dress in diapers. Whatever you are, there are people that are looking for that. It’s a matter of finding and building a relationship with them. ♥️