I’m becoming more aware of the rest of my own body and its sensations, and I’d like to hear perspectives from the community: where when and how do you like to be touched? For simplicity let’s say only your partner’s hands.
For genital contact, I like when my partner grabs my penis at the base and squeezes hard. Something about the way the blood surges under their grip.
For other contact, it depends on gender. With men, I like the way a guy can squeeze my shoulders/arms. I think it’s a strength thing, with both our muscles flexing together. With women, it’s 100% when they grab the hair on the back of my head while I’m going down on them. It’s a very intimate moment of course, and I like how if I hit a spot just right with my tongue or nose that I immediately get feedback from her through her grip.
Inner thighs, the small of my back, running their fingers over my stomach for gentle caresses.
Grabbing my hair and my throat for not-so-gentle touches!
I’ve never felt comfortable grabbing a woman’s hair roughly. There’s something about the power dynamics and gender difference which get to me. Next time she’s seems into it I’ll be more open. Thanks for sharing.
As a dude, there are a few places I like to be touched:
- Nipples - not sure why, but I love being touched or sucked there
- The pelvic area where the leg joins up - I LOVE being kissed there
- Testicles - play with it any way you want, as long as it isn’t squeezing it should be fine
- During sex, a partner was lightly scratching my back while moaning. Made me finish on the spot.
where the legs join up
By any chance do you mean the perineum, i.e. “taint”? Any pressure there is very sensitive on men especially since the rest of the penis and a bunch of glands are under there.
Ah, no - but I can imagine why you may think that.
I just found a diagram and highlighted in red what I meant as I explained it poorly lol
Left ear lobe. My top zinger. Better than touching my dick.
I was just reading about ear lobes being an erogenous zone. That explains why so many partners have tried that on me. You’d have more success with just touching my fingers and arm hair lightly lol. I’m going to try out ear lobes next time for sure.
I’ve always loved being scratched (and bitten, slapped, whipped, etc - I just love pain). My wife scratching her nails up and down my arms can send me to another world.
Yeah I was with a guy once the liked being bitten, particularly when close to orgasm. I was happy to oblige even if I didn’t quite understand. Aren’t human brains interesting?
