Yeah that’s terrifying. If I were ever to go with anyone on a date by car, even as a guy, I wouldn’t get in their car, either!

Okay, I’ll share, too. This was now many years ago, so some of it will definitely seem foreign to you all.

I’ve known I was bi for a while, but I had remained celibate through much of my 20s. Finally at 26 I decided “fuck it, let’s do something with someone and just get the anxiety out of the way.”

But who? And how? A few times I had browsed the men4men section on Craiglist, and I knew there were always guys looking to fool around. I decided not to jack off for about 1 week or more so that I was horny enough to make dumb decisions and actually make a move. I created a new email account and took some photos, and put a post out there. After a few false starts, a nice guy of the same ethnicity, a fellow grad student, and with a huge member reached out and we decided we’d meet up. He was also bi, and also inexperienced, so yeah let’s stumble through this shit together.

We meet at a movie theater so we could end up watching a movie if we didn’t feel like more, or we could mess around a little in the dark and see how things went. I had to look up the ending of the movie later because I couldn’t really remember what happened, and we didn’t stay until the end. Pretty quickly we started touching hands, and pretty quickly I got really really hard. So did he from what I could feel. We made out a little, and then decided to head back to my place, each in our own cars.

I came the first time right away while we were grinding against each other on the couch, but I don’t think either of us realized it. We ended up fooling around all night. Just hands and mouths. He did rim me for a while which was fun. We 69’d, cuddled, kissed, chatted, frotted. Really just exploring our bodies and how they react to sensations and how our penises work – his was uncut and I’m circumcised so we were both fascinated. I remember his had its own smell and taste so different from my own, and that was really fun. For an inexperienced guy he was also a surprisingly good cocksucker. After hours and hours, he didn’t want me to cum in his hands but I was too close and let it go. He cum while jacking off with me standing behind him, biting his neck. He was a really big shooter, it was kind of fun to play with it all afterwards.

I know he really wanted to meet up more, but that was enough of that for me. It was like a seal was broken though, and I became a real sexual being. I ended up hooking up with a woman I met at a party just a few weeks later, I think because I felt confident that I can actually do that kind of stuff. She even became like a fwb for a little while. That’s a story for another day, though.

I’m laughing I’m crying I’m a little turned on. This story has everything. Definitely a memorable experience! And hey, you did it!!

You’re inserting a lot of hard things into tight holes. Maybe even doing some screwing, drilling, and pounding and working up a sweat. That sounds naughty.

Omg I noticed that “girlfriend” in your post and was like 😏 nice!

Seriously though the dude had me in stitches all night. Cute guy too. Just sent me a new pic after his haircut today. I don’t think good material for a relationship as his career ambitions aren’t as driven as mine, which is important to me. But maybe a good fwb to hang out and mess around with.

Muscle guy is so weird. It’s upsetting that all my bi bros in the city seem to be so strange. I chatted with him yesterday and he’s still weird. So I’m probably just going to ignore him and move on. I took mouth only as a fun challenge, and honestly yeah it was difficult but also pretty fun to do cock worship like that.

Woof that’s an amazing coda to your update yesterday. Please share more stories like this whenever you can!

Thanks! How did it go last night? Did you have fun?

If it’s good chastity it’s impossible to get hard!

I recently discovered how overwhelming good kisses on the neck can be. That power bottom had a lot of fun with that. I’m basically incapacitated from the sensation.

If she has a kink for public sex I bet she has some ideas herself. Ask her 😈

Thank you for your perspective! That’s something important to keep in mind.

It’s really crazy. WIth women it takes a lot longer to get to the point of sexual intimacy. Guys I meet up and have sex with are shocked when I tell them what I go through with women. Maybe I’m just not finding the right women? lol

Standard disclaimer that there’s gay shit here. ETA: It seems like most other bi guys out there are…weird…

I’m away with family this weekend, but I had a fun week, with lots of new experiences! Though the week also definitely ended strangely. I think I need to focus on building more good connections with fwbs and stay away from random hookups.

Monday

• Random blowjob I found a guy who works from home really close to my office. As I was leaving work early, I offered to come over and give him a blowjob, no recip, just some worship and cocksucking. He had an hour before a zoom meeting, so I was happy to hop over and oblige. It was really a lot of fun. I never sucked a guy off to completion before — I enjoyed feeling completely in control while I worked on his cock and balls. He was a nice size too, not too difficult but still a mouthful. I think when he’s free I’ll stop by more to continue to practice giving blowjobs.

Tuesday

• Fucked a power bottom I had been chatting with a guy who describes himself as a power bottom for a while. We decided to meet up for a drink, and ultimately headed back to his place. Guy is hilarious! He was recovering from an injury, so we decided not to try and fuck. However, after a lot of foreplay and cuddling he couldn’t help himself, and I ended up breeding him. He showed me some of his power bottom moves, including his muscle control and his powerful legs. Great kisser, too. When he was screaming my name it felt so hot. He also called me “daddy” a few times which is new to me, but I didn’t mind.

Thursday

• Introduction to Tantric Sex I had chatted with a local yoga instructor and tantric expert a while back, and when he saw I hadn’t signed up for any of the workshops he recommended, he offered to give me an introduction himself. We didn’t have sex. Instead we talked about tantric philosophy, did some relaxing and energizing warmups, and explored each other’s bodies and the sensations that brought on. It was really interesting, and I felt good and energized afterwards. He’s offered to teach me tantric bj next :-)
• Cock worship gone wrong a muscular well hung bi guy was looking for guys to come over to worship his muscles and cock, and I thought that would be fun after my tantric lesson. Guy seemed okay when I showed up, said he had had drinks with friends, so definitely a little buzzed. Said he absolutely hates hands so I decided to use my mouth only. I got to work right away, and quickly started to learn how to suck a big uncut cock and have it feel good and stay manageable. After some time I realized the dude was still grabbing a drink, not of water, but of vodka! After a while longer I saw his THC edibles and tinctures on the table. Then I realized he was both drunk and high, and figured I’d get him to cum and move along. Then he told me he doesn’t cum with guys, he just likes getting blowjobs to relax. So I left! What a weird guy. He feels bad now, and has offered to let me hot dog him — slide my cock between his muscular cheeks until I cum. I might do it, might not.
• Grindr hookup gone weird I was really horny and unsatisfied at this point, and turned to Grindr. A guy a block away offered to come over for a quick sessions. It started steamy right out the gate. He has my cock in his mouth then abruptly asks me “are you close?” And I’m not so he says, “sorry man, I’m not feeling it I’ll jerk off at home”. I ended up cumming all over myself as he’s leaving my place and closing the door.___

I’d like to know how women find male fwbs. So I can find some women like that, too!

ETA: Also, that sounds really hot and fun. Enjoy yourselves!

Thank you for being responsible. I wish more people were like you. Our communities are very small, so people browsing local can have an outsize effect.

I hope you’re right. As a guy working on his own body issues, the number of downvotes can feel terrible at times.

That’s great. You and your partner sound like you have a good dynamic and understanding of each other :-)

Hot, pager + sex! How did your partner have his way with you?

Actually the problem is with all male content even in male only communities. So many users browse all local communities not just the ones they subscribe to, so will downvote any male content. I say this as a man who only posts on male communities basically. The number of downvotes is too high to only be from subscribers.