Is it possible do downgrade a central package without apt asking if you want to uninstall your entire system yet?

When a child DOES end up looking at something bad parents get all the blame for not supervising and controlling their child and get called abusive

Not everywhere. This is typical for the US.

It’s like saying that when you enter a store with a good selection, there is a war between all the available items.

Have you tried running “pavucontrol” and changing the outputs?