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  • Bonnie, 74, is on the brink of giving up on the dance classes that she has taught since sophomore year, but not on Trump. “I have total confidence in President Trump. The [federal] cuts will be tough for a little while but there’s a lot of waste, so it will level out,” said Bonnie, who is angry about not qualifying for Fema assistance.

    “We used all our life savings fixing the studio. But I cannot shovel any more mud, not even for the kids. I am done. I have PTSD, we are scared to death,” she said breaking down in tears several times.

    This is just sad. This woman is clearly broken and just cannot fathom that trump might actually just not care about what’s happening to here. It almost seems like she deified him to a god-like “he always has a plan” level.




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    3 months ago

    It might surprise you but animals too show social interactions. They also sometimes hoard resources to the detriment of others. This too is a socially constructed shortage of a resource not a natural one.

    But just like we (mostly) stopped just punching each other to resolve conflicts we could probably benefit from behaving differently, i.e. using different social strategies than animals to distribute natural resources





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    4 months ago

    You’re missing the point. It’s not the administration taking the money that’s the problem. That’s money (ideally) used to benefit everyone. The problem is the owner of the company taking a big share of the value you are producing with your labour.




  • killingspark@feddit.orgto196@lemmy.worldSex Rule
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    5 months ago

    Friend, you are not getting what is happening here. We are in agreement that there are topics that might need some checking in if anyone is uncomfortable with it. That includes sex, that includes war, it includes health, it includes childhood stories.

    I am aware of that, you are aware of that, you are just being unnecessarily confrontational. To which I say: sodd off.




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    5 months ago

    No. I reacted to someone claiming that hearing about sex needs the hearing parties consent, the same as sex needs consent which I don’t agree with.

    Talking about sex needs to be done with some caution to not upset others, like many other topics. It’s different from the consent needed for engaging in sexual activities with someone.


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    5 months ago

    That includes triggering survivors who may not have expected you to violate social norms and who would have told you, “hey, I don’t like talking about sex in front of people because I get panic attacks.”

    That’s true but that’s also true for any number of topics. This is a general “how/when do I talk about potentially triggering topics” issue and has nothing to do with sexual consent.


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    5 months ago

    The foundation of every activity people do together is consent. That doesn’t mean I need the consent of everyone in the room to talk about something.

    The second paragraph has my full support, the first one seems weird to me.




  • As a concept it’s a person that’s trans but hasn’t realised yet. Sometimes there are signs, which is where you might run into the mentioned situation of calling someone an egg. Experimenting with clothing made for women is a common/obvious one, but it doesn’t always mean they’re an egg. They might just like the clothing but still identify as a man.

    The etymology? I dunno.