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Cake day: August 17th, 2026

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  • Maybe it would help if I understood what you meant by ruined?

    Social impact (both negative attention from peers, along with recurring trauma of seeing your abuser get away with minimal punishment), emotional trauma, swlf-harm, loss of ability to trust (especially bad when it was someone you knew and thought was safe), and even impacts to job/school due to the event, to name a handful I’ve witnessed.

    Are you talking overall or only focusing on the immediate future?

    Sorry, I thought my parenthetical made it clear I was talking about the immediate future







  • chunk6235@piefed.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Rule Hunting
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    2 months ago

    Honestly, the idea of applying for a job going in cold over the Internet sounds like a horrible experience.

    It does sound that way, but in my very limited experience it worked out rather well.

    Current gig is the only one in my professional career where I didn’t get a foot in the door by word of mouth, and aside from it being scary, it wasn’t really that different. Got me a low 6 figure 100% remote work gig a few years back and I love it. But again, this is a sample size of 1.


  • chunk6235@piefed.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•let go rule
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    2 months ago

    I don’t disagree with a lot of what you wrote, other than the end:

    All this means I really only feel like it’s valid to judge JK as if she were the somewhat bigoted person she originally was, rather than today’s turbo-Nazi version of her.

    I disagree, we can judge her on the choices she made that brought her to this point. She chose to engage with negative criticism with hostility and surrounded herself with people who validated the beliefs and behaviors that culminated in where we are today.

    She could have chosen to remove herself from those situations instead of jumping in with both feet, but there would have been a social/ego cost to it, so she continued letting herself be radicalized into the hateful thing she has become.

    And I judge her as someone having almost walked a similar path. I was on the alt-right pipeline over a decade ago when they were getting their feet underneath themselves, and I had a combination of self-awareness/shame that helped me come to my senses.


  • chunk6235@piefed.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•let go rule
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    2 months ago

    I disagree with the idea that she needed to be on Twitter and engage in twitter arguments. There was moderate criticisms of her across the net, the fact she WILLINGLY chose to engage in an opinion cesspool that let her drown in shit is her own goddamned fault.

    Plenty of other people hired someone to deal with their social media accounts because they didn’t want to subject themselves to socially-acceptable-4chan, she chose to chug sewage straight from the pipe despite having plenty of money and the connections to have it. Honestly, her not engaging with criticism with hostility would have done wonders for the whole situation.


  • chunk6235@piefed.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•let go rule
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    2 months ago

    If all it took to turn a terf into a bigot was to give the author some moderate criticisms about the systemic failings of their world building to turn them into a Nazi, I think the only solution is to prevent terfs from becoming authors.

    Either that or we need to accept that this was always going to be the outcome of some privileged rich white idiot who can’t handle the slightest bit of pushback who’d rather cozy up to Nazis than admit that maybe her writing isn’t perfect.


  • On August 3rd, 2026, Louis posted a video about openly transgender Colorado state representative Brianna Titone, and in the YouTube comments posted a remark explaining his position on transgender issues, which can be paraphrased as “I think transgender women are men but I’m willing to overlook it if we have common cause”.[source].

    Louis has been a regular poster on the hate and harassment website Kiwi Farms, posting there from 2023 to the present under the username “larossmann”.

    Whelp, guess his channel is getting 86’d from my feed.



  • chunk6235@piefed.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•The cure!
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    2 months ago

    Nah, this is just basic biological racism. It wouldn’t be phrenology until they were making arguments that the shape or the lumps on his head made him stupid/insane/an insatiable raping machine/some other dumb bullshit.

    Somehow, biological racism isn’t nearly as stupid as phrenology.


  • chunk6235@piefed.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•The cure!
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    2 months ago

    I have zero clue where he came up with this but I suspect whatever braindead source for his anti gay rhetoric is also pushing the anti non white rhetoric

    Almost certainly. I followed right wing media for quite a few years (a good amount of them were by proxy, thankfully) and the anti gay/PoC/women narratives were all mixed together more often than not.





  • Don’t mistake “this is fucking stupid” for “I don’t get why this person is doing this”.

    I completely understand there are men who are so weak willed or bound by Sky Daddy that they can’t handle interactions with women, but that’s not an excuse for the behavior. If I was part of a sect that didn’t allow alcohol, I wouldn’t work where I’d regularly come into contact with it.

    If these chucklefucks can’t interact with half of their potential clients, they shouldn’t be doing the work.


  • chunk6235@piefed.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Ruleivation
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    2 months ago

    Man, you just proved so many negative assumptions about the dumbass boomers in one go. Congrats, I’m honestly impressed how much of a stereotype you are.

    Observing the stunted development of someone going through all that is leagues away from gramps calling kids a bunch of pussies for not working in a coal mine.

    Classic ignorant boomer thinking they know anything and are super confident about it. The ‘no one wants to work’ meme isn’t just stunted growth, it’s literally the capital class whining about not being able to abuse people like they used to. Like, ironically the phrase started out as people bitching about a coal mine closing:

    “No one wants to work anymore” is a result wage stagnation. Living at home into your late 20’s is also a result of wage stagnation.

    Just absolutely wrong. This has been a cudgel of those in power to help keep the poors in line by turning the stupidest among them against the people who actually fight to improve things, and has been for over 130 years:

    So fuck off with your stupid bullshit, you ignorant clown.


  • chunk6235@piefed.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Ruleivation
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    I’m not taking your comment personally, just pointing out that this is the same shit I heard like 20 years ago from boomers when I worked fast food/retail.

    Your observation isn’t new or incisive, it’s the same tired boomer bullshit we’ve been hearing for decades. This is right up there with No OnE wAnTs To WoRk AnYmOrE, we can see through it like fucking glass.