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  • i am non-binary transfem and my living area is usually messy but nowhere near like a dumpster. however, i do have some bad habits from having ADHD and also never being told to clean as a kid because my mother was an obsessive house cleaner so she got to everything first. so while i was raised male i’m not a man but i definitely was allowed to be messy as a boy… so i’m sure that contributes to a degree. my guess is we raised boys to be less tidy because we wanted them to focus on more traditionally masculine career paths.




  • dogerwaul@pawb.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonesolidarity rule
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    15 days ago

    they will never see it this way because they struggle to make connections of what’s happening now to what will be happening in the future. right now they are suffering financially and making poverty wages for their labor. it’s a dog eat dog world out there and these people become vicious and learn to play the game of capitalism, and whatever the repercussions are down the line, well, that’s a problem for the future, they gotta focus on the now. so even if they are an inevitable target of the system, they aren’t right now, so… who cares?