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  • I don’t know anything about this show, or how SpiderMan got involved, but this Jonathan sounds like an annoying little brat.

    You didn’t give many details on the whole “forbidden to be Spider-Man” thing, so that might be bad parenting, but standing at the door all night is symbolic. Maybe a complete waste of time in reality, but he’s there for him. When the kid is ready, Clark will be there to talk. And that’s not stupid at all. That’s near perfect parenting. He’s not yelling, he’s not beating down the door, but he’s also not giving up on his son. He’s just there. Ready, and waiting for his kid to cool down from his hissy fit so they can work on this problem together.

    EDIT: Hold up. I either didn’t see it, or forgot all about it by the time I got to the end, but are we seriously talking about something that was written by AI?

    That’s like taking a shit on the carpet and complaining about the shape of the stain it leaves.












  • I totally get what you’re saying!

    My personal example is when I finish a task, my default action is to have a cigarette, and/or look at my phone.

    I don’t know if it directly explains these actions or not, but psychology uses the term schema for “pre-programmed” responses to stimuli.

    For example, if there was a dog that bit you as a kid, your mind will remember that, and the next time you see a dog, your brain will default to “stay away”. If you encounter friendly dogs after that, your schema will change to “proceed with caution” as it now knows that dogs can be nice, but it’ll remember that bite.

    They are mental shortcuts. Instead of completely analyzing the current situation and creating a plan from scratch, your brain remembers the last similar experience it had, and proceeds as if they are pretty much the same.

    I’m thinking this relates to your “default actions” as: I was bored before, and when I did X, it caused the boredom to go away, so I’ll try that first. And it just kind of happens without you consciously deciding to do it.

    Also, if I’m the only person that understands what you’re talking about, you might be describing a trait of ADHD. I used to think a lot of the things I experienced were completely normal, but eventually figured out that I’m very neurodivergent.