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Cake day: July 29th, 2024

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  • 100% they do mean it.

    I never really wanted kids. But me and a friend had too much to drink one night and I was a dad at 22. It’s the best thing that ever happened to me. Now I’m 30 and have 3.

    People tend to focus on what you give up and not what you gain. Parenting presents a huge amount of moments and activities and feelings that you would never get otherwise.

    Both paths are good. Just different.

    I wouldn’t trade the first time my daughter said I love you for anything in the world. Or even the first time she smiled. You could offer me any amount of money or holidays and I wouldn’t go back and miss that.

    I have a good support network so I can still go out when I want to. I could go on holidays without them if I wanted to. I could buy them less stuff and myself more. Nothing is stopping me.

    But I wouldn’t trade a moment of it.









  • Yeah vaping will have its time. I bet they’re already sitting on evidence that it fucks you up.

    Prohibition does work very well for kids though. Most people start young as when you’re older you know the issues.

    So they are keeping it for people already exposed and trying to stop younger people starting in the first place.

    They raised the age to 18 when I turned 16 and it dramatically cut the amount we had access to.

    It’s not like the old alcohol probation. Plus smoking isn’t even fun like drinking. It’s just gross and bad for your health. And most people don’t drink because of addiction. It’s a different kettle of fish.

    But they should be doing the same for vaping.







  • Actually jit languages can outperform compiled languages by using runtime analysis to perform tiered compilation and profile guided optimisations.

    C# has made some great strides in this regard.

    All the normal optimisations are applied when it is compiled to byte code. Like loop unrolling etc.

    Then once it detects the hot paths during execution it can apply even more based on how it is called. It can also do optimisations that aren’t possible at initial compile time.

    Dynamic PGO it’s called. It’s a really interesting topic.



  • Use your bed only for sleep. No screens for a few hours before bed. Milk before bed. Reading or audio books are a great way to settle your mind.

    If you aren’t asleep after 30 or so minutes get up and do something chilled for a little bit. Laying there getting pissed you aren’t asleep doesn’t help.

    Stick to a sleep / wake schedule. I’ve found getting up early and consistently much more effective for sorting out my sleep.