… so bull is fair game (of seduction & passion)?

For real. And then there is also the classic ‘their lives are probably a bit better without my crappy presence in it, so it’s only moral to leave them alone’.

Sooner or later either they stop responding to my summoning or I stop summoning them thinking I’m bothering them too much …

I love the little renesanse of vintage memery that the great Reddit exodus of 2023 created <3