Binzy_Boi
The local Albertan, rediscovering what it means to be me. May play devil’s advocate at times, as I like being nuanced.
Enjoys electronic music, adorable art, rhythm games, and perogies among other things.
I have lemmy.world and piefed.world blocked. Sorry, too much American politics and an unfortunate amount of casual transphobia for my liking. Feels like talking to a brick wall with people and I can’t be bothered anymore.
Also have lemmy.ml blocked for transphobia and gross dismissal of human rights issues in China by the admins.
#nobot #AuDHD
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The doc diagnosing me with psychopathy after showing up to his office in socks and sandals.
Me, (not) a trans woman, planting a glitter bomb filled with estrogen in the office lunchroom to turn my coworkers trans.
Oh dope, thanks for showing me this!
I had an idea for a community called “shitty art prompts” where people would give bizarre prompts for art for others to work with, but haven’t come around to creating it mainly because I can’t draw for the life of me, and it wouldn’t sit right with me if I created and moderated a community I didn’t have the proper talents to contribute to.
For what reason other than arousal would someone wear one?
This doesn’t count baby leashes btw, which are at the back and not the neck and are used to prevent a kid from getting lost or wandering off into danger (when used properly).
Thanks for that.
If I’m sitting on a busy bus for example, and two people, a couple, sit in front of me and start making out with some tongue on tongue action, I’m going to be disturbed. I’m not comfortable with that, and I didn’t consent to seeing that.
People have their kinks and sexually intimate acts that they’re into. Consent on both parties is important, but what’s important as well is the consent of people around you in seeing that. A regular kiss, hug, or other purely romantic or platonic show of affection you don’t need other people’s consent for, so a person claiming “consent” when gay people hold hands or kiss in front of them is just a bigot.
For the same reason I wouldn’t send a picture of kink art I know a friend isn’t into without their consent, I also wouldn’t indulge in my kinks in public where I know most people won’t be into it, as they didn’t consent to, for example, seeing me on a leash in this case (not my thing, hypothetical application of the pic).
Wow, using the same words I did as some sort of cheap “gotcha”, aren’t you smart?
I’m not gonna engage with you if you’re not gonna come to the table with anything of value to add.
This is a false equivalence and you are lying if you say that you don’t see this as one.
It’s common decency? I’m not going to judge someone for what they wear in public, but when it comes to sexual stuff, it’s just a matter of being mindful of others.
Not a “think of the children” or “I’m uncomfortable with queer people existing” sorta deal with what I’m saying either, making sure my words don’t get twisted, but a leash to me gives the same vibes as say, a couple having an intense makeout session on the bus. Like do you need to make this public?
This a minor nitpick here, I know, just worried something like that gives fuel to the narrative jackwad with the sign is pushing.
From my understanding leashes are a sexual thing no?
Is that a leash?
Gonna go against the grain and say that’s a bit of a no-go, regardless of how much of an ass that guy is being. Get rid of that and I see nothing wrong here though.
Binzy_Boi@piefed.cato Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Is there a Fediverse version of Onlyfans?English15·1 month ago“You can seize my means of production, baby”
Binzy_Boi@piefed.caOPto Linux@programming.dev•Former Linux user looking for stable distroEnglish1·1 month agoLooks neat, will consider it. I don’t do a crazy amount of gaming though as I don’t do anything AAA or such.
Binzy_Boi@piefed.caOPto Linux@programming.dev•Former Linux user looking for stable distroEnglish3·1 month agoI currently have an Nvidia 1060 Ti, and was mainly using KDE save for Mint and whatever it was I had with Manjaro. Too long back to remember for the latter. Think the GPU in the previous comp was exact same model, either that or a 1080 Ti.
Binzy_Boi@piefed.caOPto Linux@programming.dev•Former Linux user looking for stable distroEnglish2·1 month agoNot huge into Cinnamon (I think that’s Mint’s default desktop environment). No idea why people hate on Windows 10 in terms of the layout of the desktop environment because it’s just about perfect for me. KDE was like the layout of Windows 10 if it was outright perfect. Kubuntu was incredible as a starter after the mess I had with Manjaro, which was so long ago I can’t even remember what happened there.
KDE for me is an absolute necessity in a distro in terms of desktop environment. Remember having it with Debian.
Binzy_Boi@piefed.caOPto Linux@programming.dev•Former Linux user looking for stable distroEnglish1·1 month agoBeen meaning to replace my GPU with an equivalent by AMD. Only thing keeping me back is cost, and knowing if an AMD equivalent would be compatible with my motherboard.
Binzy_Boi@piefed.caOPto Linux@programming.dev•Former Linux user looking for stable distroEnglish2·1 month agoProbably had start of last year or end of 2023. Memory is fuzzy admittedly.
Thanks for the suggestion.
The four genres of music:
Country, Airpod, Forest, Dariacore