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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • Of course not. I’m in love with a whole person, not her appearance. I love her fierce intellect, her passion for justice, her wanderer’s spirit. I love that we can sit together and watch anything only for it to lead to a new and endlessly fascinating discussion.

    Makeup doesn’t affect any of that.

    I like how makeup highlights her favorite features or hides when she feels tired or insecure. I like that it helps her feel more fully herself. I think it’s great that makeup can do that for her.

    She will always be attractive to me for who she is. How she looked may have helped me first talk to her, but who she is has kept us talking for 16 years.














  • It has its moments. The opportunity to figure out a tough problem or create an innovative solution can be very rewarding.

    What busy work there is I can work at my own pace, so long as I meet deadlines.

    I work from home, have a fair amount of autonomy and responsibility and have no one looking over my shoulder.

    I recognize I’m very fortunate.