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  • Hey, sounds exactly like my mom! I have no idea where this line of thinking comes that all queer people are that way because they were sexually assaulted at some point, but I’ve known multiple people in the older generation who think that for some reason.

    She also insists that I’m “just a gay man, because I know lots of effeminate gay guys”, even though I’ve explained to her multiple times that’s not how it works and I’m primarily attracted to women. It’s very tiring to deal with her at times…


  • hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    9 days ago

    Unironically, walking everywhere helps a lot. I went on a month long trip to Japan and was doing minimum 15000 steps a day. When I got back, literally everyone noticed my hips were significantly thicker.

    Bodyweight squats and yoga also help a ton, but require a bit more effort obviously.




  • hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneChrulestmas
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    15 days ago

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  • hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneDishwashrule
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    2 months ago

    It’s so real, especially early in transition. I remember chatting with a coworker via Teams about cars, and he was being really weird about trying to flex his car, getting really upset I wasn’t fawning over it, and being extremely dismissive of basically every opinion I had. I kept thinking to myself “wtf is this guy’s problem?” because I had literally never interacted with a person so condescending when talking to me about cars.

    Mind you, I’m an automotive engineer, working for an automotive company, who has been racing since before I got my license. I would say I’m decently knowledgeable about cars.

    It wasn’t until he said “There goes silly hovercat with her silly opinions again” that I realized “Oh shit, he’s talking to me like that because I’m a woman”. It was incredibly affirming, but definitely some mixed feelings about the whole thing.





  • hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneFriend rule
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    4 months ago

    I was honestly kind of on this path. Not to this point, but the self-hatred was definitely being directed outward in some not-so-subtle ways. Both convincing myself that trans people were degenerate so that I wouldn’t want to be trans, and also as a “cover” in a way, because I was terrified my friends would figure out I’m trans.

    I remember seeing a post fairly recently from someone broadly apologizing to a trans sub, because they’d been trolling and harassing it for a while previously. Same story, they were trans, and took out the fear and self-hate on other trans people to try and displace their feelings.