I’m just saying that I’ve been with a lot of men and women, and in my experience men are typically satisfied after 1-2 orgasms. Women are typically satisfied after 2-4. From the boasts I’ve heard from some of the lesbians I know, I’d expect a real marathon session to have both parties orgasming 10+ times. The math just doesn’t check out for dudes.
Obv you can spend as much time as you want making your partner cum, but at a certain level of disparity it resembles sex less and more masturbation with a tool.
Hope for what? As much as I’d like to have hope, the last 40 years of human history have painted a pretty dire picture of what the next 40 will look like. Even in the best case scenarios, the loss of human life will be monumental and there will be widespread violence. I’m being genuine here, what should I be hoping for?