It actually is just the way you described it. But one of my students is technically far beyond most others her age - and still demands playing shitty pop music. Sometimes I really want to make her angry (she’s heavy on the spectrum), just so she can unleash her full potential. Have fun with other genres. Like, idk, play a song of my late friend’s band Static-X. :D I know she could do it, but she prefers not to. I am not shoving or pushing her. She does what she feels fine with. So, I guess more Swift, more Lady Gaga, more Billie Eilish… ;D
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Most of my students are kids / teenagers and especially group classes can be somewhat annoying every now and then. But at the same time it’s very rewarding. Sure, sometimes I’m a bit underwhelmed by their taste in music, but hey, I’ve been a dumbass kid as well back in the day. I love the lessons when I’m not taking any requests, just giving a big lecture about different music genres and then getting into the drumming zone. I teach one advanced class every 2nd week (beginners class is every week) and I love seeing my students light up when it comes to proper challenging stuff. One is a fun nu metal fan who once asked me if I knew how to play “Word up”. You mean the Korn version or the actual original? Lol, his mind was blown away after hearing the original for the first time, and that was the original song plus me on the drums playing along to it. :D I might’ve had shitty parents, but oh dear, both of them had good taste in music and thus I know boatloads of cool stuff all the way down from the mid 50s up until the early 90s.
Lol, I had to look it up online. There’s some very nice Breakcore elements in that music. To quote a friend of mine (who is crazy enough to actually play that sort of stuff live on an oldschool kit every now and then): “Sure, I can play Breakcore live - for about 20 minutes and then I’ve got to stop because otherwise it would give me a major league heart attack!” :D
Oh, no worries. I teach them 50/50 what they want to learn and the other half is what I think it’s good for them to learn. That includes Blues, Jazz, Grunge, Funk, Soul, and so, so many more genres. I just hate dull pop music with a passion. :D
(plays punk music angrily in a corner…)
I’m a drums teacher and I’m this close to breaking my sticks with my bare teeth if any of my students request learning another shitty Swift song ever again. Or maybe I’ll smash the window in by throwing my kit at it. Or myself. Or my students…
Wasn’t it taking place in New Mexico, according to some ancient interviews and the writers bible for those bits? Please correct me, if I’m wrong here.
TotallyNotSpez@startrek.websiteto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do gender roles have a stranglehold on heterosexual relationships, or does social media just make it feel that way?4·2 days agoI know a bunch of people in happy cis-hetero relationships where there is no bs going on with traditional gender role expectations. A dear friend of mine is a super sweet, sensitive and emotionally open cis-lad. He and his wife are very happy together. He’s got pink hair, dresses pretty funky and is super adorable while his wife is more on the butch side with a healthy ‘let’s do this’ hands on mentality and a nice casual look. That’s just one exampel. Almost all my hetero lady friends go for emotionally open and cute lads. Just be yourself, find the right person to date and be happy together.
Candy for Mandy. :) Treat yourself every once in a while.
TotallyNotSpez@startrek.websiteto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Where'd all the straight-edge people go?15·7 days agoI used to be straight edge (or queer edge?), but gave up a few years ago. I need my vices just so I don’t feel dead inside 24/7.
TotallyNotSpez@startrek.websiteto movies@piefed.social•Weekly thread - What movies have you watched this week? 24/09/20252·7 days agoI watched Gattaca for the first time and I introduced my partner to the movie Upgrade. Gattaca was an interesting piece to watch. After seeing Upgrade, both of us had to recover from the psychological trauma it caused. I’ve seen the movie quite a few times by now, but the ending still punches me in the gut.
TotallyNotSpez@startrek.websiteto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you ever go out, and while you're out, you think, ‘this is exactly why I don't go out’?5·13 days agoThose places are lovely, of course I know then - I’m from there :D
TotallyNotSpez@startrek.websiteto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you ever go out, and while you're out, you think, ‘this is exactly why I don't go out’?621·13 days agoI’m queer and once had a date with a black woman from the States while living in Dublin, Ireland. She asked me if I could be her local tourist guide. Sure thing!
Walked her all across the shitty overpriced city centre. At some point she asked me:
“Am I the only black person around here?”
Eventually decided to ditch the CC and take a taxi to my local area.
Waltzed into my regular pub holding hands, cuddeling.
The entire place filled with white cis locals went dead silent like in a bad cliche movie.
“Harry, two pints of the black stuff, will ye?”
Peeps realised that at least I was a local and continued minding their own business.
Jeez…
I don’t think so since they are divorced and retired.
I’m the person responsible for my surname becoming extinct worldwide. It was a very rare one and I was the only one left being able to pass it on. Too bad I changed my surname when I got married, plus I’m queer. Double kill for that legacy. The last few people on this planet with my previous surname will be the last ones.
TotallyNotSpez@startrek.websiteto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•You have to make 40 dollars in 3 hours or your family will explode. What do you do?43·14 days agoGo to the Winchester, have a nice cold pint, and wait for all of this to blow over.
Needless to say I’m not too fond of my family…
I rarely speak well of English people or English food, but damn, thanks to them I found the holy grail of Mac n Cheese recipes.:D
TotallyNotSpez@startrek.websiteto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you play an instrument? What's your favorite thing about it?5·22 days agoDon’t worry,I learnt from my past mistakes. I’ve got solid ear protection now and also wear earplugs for all concerts I’m attending.
TotallyNotSpez@startrek.websiteto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you play an instrument? What's your favorite thing about it?9·22 days agoI used to program electronic music and play live keyboard until I wrecked my hearing on stage.
I picked up playing drums 1.5 years ago and love it. I’ve been teaching drums for almost 2 months now at a music school.
Drumming relaxes me a lot, it’s a good workout and even with my impaired hearing I can still play them.
I am so sorry, he was a very dear friend of mine.
If you want to, we can talk about him via PM.