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  • LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.comto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneepic ratio rule
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    5 days ago

    An interesting variation on this I’ve heard that I think illustrates why it’s so inflammatory (and thus my issue with it even if I agree fully with what it’s saying) is changing it to whether you’d feel more comfortable with a Christian or Muslim at night in the woods.

    Like I used to be racist against Russians because I’m Russian originally and I’ve tons of lived experience around Russians and I would sooner pick just about any other nationality before Russians to be around, I’m justified in this just as I’m justified in feeling that way about men, but at the same time, it’s no less inflammatory to say.

    It’s all just ragebait. That’s why unlike many nuanced feminist arguments or discussions about male violence you’ve actually heard of it and see it on the internet, it generates engagement. Doesn’t excuse the harassment, but it explains it. Is it really so productive to get worked up all the time?












  • LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.comto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneWhistling Rule
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    23 days ago

    Good at whistling -> good at using lips/mouth or tongue for faux-whistling -> good at giving head to wife, presumably a pre-SRS trans woman or performing cunnilingus on wife if she is a post-SRS trans woman or a cis woman (haven’t heard that called head before tho)

    OP checks out honestly, I think whistling actually made me better at being able to form the optimal lip shape for that “hermetic seal engaged” feeling without giving my gf teeth surprises by accident. She’s an even better whistler and her even briefly trying to give me cuni changed what I thought was possible to feel.

    TL;DR: sex reference

    EDIT: why the downvotes?