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Cake day: February 18th, 2025

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  • I can only feel confidence and control if I have a solid, well-reasoned belief that I can succeed and my actions are meaningful.

    But you have to stop assuming that these things are working against you this strongly. Maybe the evidence is there through other people’s rejections, even if some made it point-blank to you. But for me personally, mobility challenges (assuming these are what you mean) are not a reason for me to not consider someone; in fact, they’re irrelevant relative to, as you so well-worded it, “anyone who shares [your] values.”

    So there you have it: I’m proof that there’s more out there for you than “blind hope.” I don’t have a completed success story for you as I myself continue to quietly look for a lovely lady, but am sort of giving up (but not because of a personal physical challenge!).